Saturday, July 30, 2011

Don't Be Obsessed With Truth, Instead, Make It A Fundamental Part Of Your Existence. Plain And Ordinary. Truth Requires No Embellishments.




If you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything.
Mark Twain


Water Carrier. Rapidograph pen and India ink on drawing paper.
Signed, December 25, 1980.


A worthy, interesting and exciting life is not determined by how well you tweet, write, relay, draw, paint your stories or how well someone writes about or illustrates it. It is determined by how honest you are. Honesty makes ordinary things extraordinary. No highfalutin word may describe the simple joy and excitement of being. You try too much and your life sounds like a cheap fiction novelette or a cheesy boring blog post. The only people who will read it and leave positive comments are your sycophantic self-serving audience or boring people with greasy hair who sit in front of computers all day and pretend to be someone else.

Ever noticed that perverted and depraved men and women who are accused of sexual harassment for the first time and deny it, keep on fending off stories and similar allegations with lies? Likewise with those who take advantage of others. It is their reputation.

You, know, truth is just like that. It is a pattern. You live a good and moral life and chances are, other people are likely to repeat stories of goodwill, honorable deeds, appreciation and admiration of you. They keep popping up. They will be ordinary stories because there is nothing complicated about truth, though plain, simple and ordinary, they are perfervid. It is their integrity.

In my many years of blogging I have met many extraordinary bloggers with ordinary tales of courage, perseverance, struggles, fun and adventure. Bloggers write about these special people. I have also met many autobiographical liars and trumpet blowers.

What does this post have to do with my drawing? A lot and nothing. I did this drawing thirty one years ago, on December 25, 1980. My sister preserved it. Unfortunately I don't have a scanner handy, so I took a macro shot. I was then a student of speech pathology. One of my sisters told me, in a scolding way, to make something of my nursing degree instead of studying new fields. At that time, I had already spent seven years in college. I was working full time as a speech therapist for children diagnosed with cerebral palsy and autism. I remember what I enjoyed the most though; being a Girl Scout troop leader of disabled scouts, drawing, painting and making town models. Thirty one years ago. Not much has changed it seems. I still have a specialized licensed professional career but devote my time on extraneous activities like squiggling, painting...





Thank you for your visits and comments.




16 comments:

martinealison said...

Quel travail titanesque ma chère Ces... Une sorte de pointillisme ce dessin... Porteur d'eau, porteur de bonheur et de vie...
Je suis certaine que tu as dû apporter beaucoup à l'ensemble de ces enfants et ils ont également dû te donner beaucoup... Ton inconscient, semblable à une éponge, a emmagasiné beaucoup et ta plume est le fil conducteur...
Je te fais de gros bisous.

Rick Forrestal said...

Wow. This is sooo weird (not your post, just the timing.)

I just had this really intense discussion with my daugher last night . . about being honest, intimate, no secrets . . . and I used my favorite Mark Twain quote, which is soooo true . . . "never having to remember what you say." And here you are with this wonderful post.

I love it.

I'm off on assignment -- first big trip since my operation -- so I'll be off-the-blog for a while.
Very excited, very happy, to be shooting in the wilds again.

Take care. Do good work. Be true to yourself.
And ENJOY life.

xo
Rick

Arija said...

You did that 31 years ago?? It is possibly the strongest think I have seen of your work. You have captured the raw emotion of both the toiler and the viewer. It has the strength of van Gogh's weary man trudging home after a hard days work. I am sure you know the one I mean.

Yes. it is all about simple honesty and doing the best we can.

Haven't seen you around for some time . . . you know I tend to worry when you are too busy.

Steve E said...

I was obsessed with lying. "(We) I lied when even the truth would have sufficed..." --(AA Big Book)

Remembering what a happy day it was at the end of which I realized I had not told one single lie--or bent the truth--grin! (Wish I had marked that date.)

Ces, I'm thinking I'll try squiggling. Less expensive, for one thing. Need a good set of pens. Gotta check back in your blogs where you describe those.

This post is SO welcome, after a few days of missing your presence here. And your thoughts of wisdom SO acceptable...not a blemish in your thinking. HA! "Blemish"--now THERE is a word I can identify with...

Your picture(s) are like a tutorial on squiggling, your writing a tutorial on LIVING!
Love. Peace. Sobriety. I am fortunate to know well all three of those.

Thank you.
Blessings!

Steve E said...

OH! I read Rick's comment two times
--your posts Ces, bring out the positive 'best' in all of your readers!
Hugs!

Malka Michaela said...

Amazing picture! Can't believe it's so old. I haven't stopped by for ages. Hope you are well. The post is full of melancholy..
There is time and place for everything and where you are right now is where you supposed to be!

Lovely take on truth in your post.
Just stay true to yourself and keep on inspiring others. One person at a time. You can't change the whole world by yourself, but you ARE a part of the process and the world wouldn't go on without you, because you are here!!
Blessings!! <3

froggie said...

wow! great quote, cessie and a lovely piece as well! :-)

Ann Pilicer said...

Yes great quote and post! I do agree! :D

Jack Foster said...

Hey Ces! I’ve always loved that Mark Twain quote. The truth really does set us free. Free to be ourselves and free to ponder the more meaningful things in life like friends and family, rather than trying to remember what we told to somebody and who we told it to. I love the “water Carrier” He has a Van Gogh feel to him. 31 years ago! Time sure does fly when you’re having fun doodling :o) God bless.

k.h.whitaker said...

Beautiful Ces and I feel the same way about lying. I hate it. It makes me sick. I'd rather hear a painful truth than a pretty lie. They just complicate and make things so much uglier in the end. XOXOXO :)

linda cardina said...

LOVE YOUR BANNER!!!
hey ces, how the heck are u?? i've posted this one 1yr or so ago..my first painting vid. was on a kick painting to amy winehouse music. she really was an amazing talent. :((( hope u are well. are u visiting your family in the philipines? hope u are have a fab time where ever u are. xox
tsup, lin

linda cardina said...

ces, i lost your email address. please write. do u know my address?

Andrew Finnie said...

Hello beautiful Ces, beautiful on the inside as well as the outside:) Ahh to tell you truth, I would lie more often, but I am so bad at it that I cannot, and I am bad at it because I have never had the practice, so you see not lying can be because you are lacking in some department. :) See?

Ah, you know, I am good at giving compliments because I only compliment someone when they deserve it, and that makes it e asy to be honest.

Your work is great, and wonderful and you sure do good mouth watering cherries :) I hope that you had good news the other day and that things are looking up.

best wishes

PS don't get a big head just because I told the truth. Being a fine and talented anything is just because you worked bl&*^&y hard at it, so don't try and take all the credit, eh?

:)

PS I like the drawing too

Andrew Finnie said...

Just wishing you a happy weegend :)
Here in Oz we are celebrating "Saturday Day", It is a day put aside so we appreciated having a day of the week that is not any other day, but a Saturday :)

Please don't reply to this, I know you are busy and just to say we are thinking of you

che'ears from 'ear'

Schrödinger's Cat said...

hello im sorry still busy with work and stuff i hope youve been well, andrews right we are thinking of you and i have missed you so.

Some truths are born in strange places.

Krista said...

Wonderfully thoughtful post, as always! Also, I very much enjoyed your painting of you and Bella, and your quest for Fiesta mugs below!

(My verification word is sesced-- seems like a combination of Ces and succeed-- how appropriate!) Have a lovely, truthful day!